The invitation is one of the first impressions your guest will have of your wedding and they should reflect the occasion perfectly. Invitations vary in style, color, and size. There are many different pieces to an invitation and each has a unique function.

The main part of a wedding ensemble is the invitation. It announces the bride and the groom’s wedding date, location, and typically, although not always, include the names of their parents. This invitation traditionally has two envelopes. The first is what the actual address will be written on, customarily by a calligrapher. The inner envelope is normally lined and the names of each invited guest is written on this envelope.

The next portion of the wedding ensemble is the reception card. This tells the wedding guests where the wedding reception will be held. Occasionally, the wedding and reception is at the same location and this card is not needed. However, the majority of weddings need a reception card.

Response, or reply cards, are the next piece of the ensemble. This is important because it includes a self-addressed stamped envelope that the guest will mark whether or not they will be able to attend the wedding. Sometimes food choices are included on this card.

Thank you cards, or informal cards are also an important item to purchase at this time. They are usually inexpensive when compared to other stores generic thank you cards. Better yet, they are personalized and match your invitations. Thank you cards simply say thank you on the front. Informal cards have the couples name or monogram and are blank inside to write the note. It is frowned upon in etiquette guides to have a pre-printed thank you notes. Take the time to handwrite each guest a heartfelt, meaningful note of appreciation.

Next month look for more tips on ordering the perfect invitation.